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The disrespectful 6yr old and the parent in denial

Dreading6yrod's picture

I'm the sm of a 6 year old who displays very disrespectful behavior towards me he walks in my house and gets into my car all without speaking he never speaks or acknowledge my presence unless he wants something from me in addition to various other things every time I bring it to my husbands attention he makes excuses for his behavior first it was he is a baby (at 3 ) then he was only 4,5, 6 .... He lives in a broken home his mom doesn't tech him he comes up with every excuse not to t deal with them problem due to years of this behavior from both my husband and his youngest son has build up allot of resentment in me toward the both of them I literally dread him coming over and I try to find any reason to not be around him because in addition to being rude and disrespectful he is also very bad and the part that hurts me as we'll as piss me off is my husband makes up these ridiculous excuses for him and says other people don't get bothered by his nonsense when shows no reguard for my feelings he compares me to outsiders who don't have to deal with him on the level I do and being that I'm his wife and his children's step parent I should be shown more respect from he both of them I'm ready to walk away from the both of them

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giveitago's picture

Well, for one, I would make out I did not hear his requests for something from you! I learned a long time ago that it's no use, whatsoever, telling 'daddy' his kids are badassed little Mphukkas...daddy wears blinkers! If you do complain about anything you are being 'negative' LOL soooooooooo....you let the kid down when he talks to you, like 'I'm sorry, I did not hear you, what did you say?' Then you refer the kid to his daddy, with 'you'll need to ask your daddy about that.'
Once he learns he cannot play you then he'll change his tune a bit.