I have a 17 year old stepson who I have be trying my best to give him all the love I can. I have caught him twice peeping in on me, the second time was at 5:45 eastern time. I am at a loss, confused upset, angry, hurt, stabbed in the back. His mother, I'm told makes out on the couch with her husband in front of him and God only knows what else. I don't want to destroy his relationship with his father but I don't want him around me anymore. The boy was videoing me with his cell phone through the crack under the door. How many times has he done this and I didn't catch him, and has he sent any video or pic's to his friends. What do I do? I took his phone away and he had already deleted everything of me but I saw some of the most perverted pictures of other women and men on his phone I wanted to throw up. I fear he is a lost cause. Does anyone have any ideas for me. please help