Sd13 is still on vacation with her useless bm. We have gotten called multiple times everyday about her not being, exposing herself in public, meeting a boy (16 year ol), and then she got mad at bm and ran away. That night they found her at a bar. Nodes bm decide to parents this psycho at ths point? NO, of course not. She ignores the problem, made a small attempt to ground sd, but then of course se wont watch her so last night se ran away again. Bm couldn't find her but refused to call the police. After 2 1/2 hours they finally found sd hiding with this boy, the one she said early on denied sd being there. Bm calls dh to tell him she is done with sd, and will be bringing her straight home. Good parenting bm, show your daughter she can act however, and still no consequences.

Dh and I talked, sd will be grounded hen she gets home. No electronics, no going to play with friends. However, I'm pissed we have to discipline her. We always hav to be the bad guys and punish, because bm won't. Bm creates a lot of these issues by simply not watching sd. She said sd hasn't been taking her meds. Great bm, why the hell not? Because you don't want to parent her, you don't want to watch her and ensure she is taking her mental health meds. She's 13, she's irresponsible, she doesn't want to take her meds, so if you don't watch her, she won't take them. Bm you are a useless, jealous bitch, and your daughter is going to end up pregnant before she is 14, and though you will blame dh, it's your fault. When she is here, she is watched.

Ugh, I'm so frustrated. And of course dh is stressed beyond measure. How can't make him see a little tough love is going to be required? Also, sd told dh that she just wants to be loved, she wants live like me and dh. Very smooth se, very smooth. You don't mean that or you would have amen what I said to heart and realized you don't get this at 13, it takes work, effort, sacrifice, and compromise. Telling a boy you love him after 3 days will only result in you atteacting boys that want to use your needy ass! Of course I don't elusive this excuse. She's a pervert and I think she just wants to fuck around. Can tell dh that though.

I'm so very tired....