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Done dealing with crazy BM and DONE dealing with BF.

justanothergurlNJ's picture

Submitted by justanothergurlNJ on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 10:58am

Really just need to vent! I am DONE dealing with BM and her bullshit I am also done with dealing with how BF handles all of it. I wash my hands completely. I will no longer allow this self centered, selfish, poor excuse for a mother affect my life or my happiness. BF doesn’t follow up with his lawyer, doesn’t reach out, doesn’t stand up to BM well then you know what? Not my Ex not my problem, not my kids not my problem. Don’t ask for my advice, don’t ask for my opinion, and DO NOT ask me to write another email to the lawyer NOTHING. From this moment on I will take no part in any of it. If you refuse to take your balls back that she carries around in her Coach purse then so be it. I will no longer fight for you are your ball. They are not my balls, mine are still in tact!

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Submitted by TASHA1983 on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 11:07am

Good for you Gurl!!! DONT PUT UP WITH THAT SHIT ANYMORE!!!!

NOT YOUR KID/EX...NOT NOW NOT EVER IS IT YOUR PROBLEM!!!! PERIOD!!!

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Submitted by round2 on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 11:24am

In all seriousness - you are correct, it really is not your problem. I have learned that the hard way. I listen, give feedback when I feel it would be helpful but mostly I just smile and look like I am listening when FDH asks me wheat he should do with Princess Pain in the Ass.

For example, he asked me the other day if she was getting a belly? He actually said this with a straight face - it was all I could do not to bust out laughing!! He GUT is so big it hangs over her shorts, she doesnt fit into any of her clothes and her ass is huge. She is 8 for the record.

I smiled and said "why do you ask?" then I suggested he have her see the pediatrican if he was concerned. Simple and nice way of not getting involved and avoiding an argument.

Good luck

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Submitted by justanothergurlNJ on Tue, 07/17/2012 - 11:31am

lol Forget giving my opinion on the skids. I stopped that a long time ago. The biggest reason I am wahing my hands is because this bitch just irks me, she is spiteful, vindictive and just grimey and while I feel for SO I refuse to carry around this much anger and disgust for someone who I really have no attachement to. I don't even dispise my ex this much and he is really a POS as a matter of fact he is neither here nor there for me. I told him this morning this is how I feel, I am not sure he thinks I am serious but he soon will. I told him to send an email to the lawyer about her lastest games, not sure if he did or will but I can say who WON'T being doing it. ME!