I have been reading alot of things on this site, and I love it!!! Here is my issue....I have been with my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years, but have been best friends for over 20 years. I love him to the moon and back and I know he feels the same. For the past 11 months his daughter(14) moved in with us because she was failing school, and fighting with her Mom constantly. We set out rules right from the beginning...keep room clean, go to school, and do any other chores upon request. Pretty simple right? Well what a joke, when these things don't happen, my bf kisses her ass because if he disaplines her in any way she slams doors, stomps around the house, basically acts like a 2 year old. This pisses me off to no end. AND then if my bf and I decide we are going to spend time together, like going for a drive for a couple of hours, when we get back the hissy fit starts all over again!!! He will drop whatever he is doing to run her around, sometimes 3 or 4 times a day because "she forgot something" I stopped going with them because I find it absolutely ridiculous. She constantly needs to be the center of attention, no matter the situation. I could ramble on forever, so I will leave it at this for now. Is there anyone out there feeling like the 14 year old is manipulating her Dad, and if so what can I do to help it stop? :?