To start this off I was married once before to a man that was abusing to me and my 2 kids so I ended my marriage with him. 5 years later I found a man that I gave all my love to, But he has two girls the oldest one I have no problem with what so ever, she is loving and caring, but she is intimidated by her younger sister. I have dated this man for 4 years and he really didn't help me out with them he was only a weekend dad to them and every other week to his girls in the summer but he rather be there best friend then being a dad that punish them. I have done so much for them every time they asked for anything i tried to get it and I would buy them things and take them places but by the end of the summer the youngest would lie about me to there mom and that start's a fight. And then it began with the stilling and lieing more from the both of them the oldest would back up the youngest because she don't want to get bet up by her younger sister. The youngest does not like to be last always first at every thing and always and i mean always has to get what she wants. she nags at her dad to get what ever she wants. she got him rapped around his finger by calling him daddy at the age of 12 doing that, she will be 13 this summer. she only calls him Daddy when she wants something and calls me mommy wants something but since she will not stop her lieing and stilling I don't give in never to my kids I think I wouldn't have to walk on egg shells with her the youngest child. and i don't. Once the lieing kind of oh i don't know wasn't as much she decided to steal money from her father and Pads from me. I started to hide my pads and then that stopped but she was taking other things so I got this big thing in my bed room were i put all my hair burst, pads , make up everything so everything in the bathroom is gone in to my bed room. I do not have the money to replace my things a lot of it was given to me but she don't care she also is in trouble by the law a few times. I am not sure what her mother does by punishing but it is not working. No one wants to take care of the youngest because of her action's I am kind of at the end of my rope. I have tried to leave the man that i love because of her. But he wouldn't let me go. SO we got married march 5th of this year and we had them on the weekend she grabed dustin's Iphone and started taken pics of everyone I told her i didn't want my picture taken what she do upload it to facebook. I got so upset and asked her why she just comes back saying I am board or or because I want to get you mad. the only way she would take the picture off is if i gotten a pic of her in a dress and post it on facebook will i end up getting that pic on my computer but she took it off before i got to facebook. I don't want it to be like that. Her mother is getting remarried she calls her step dad DAD but calls me Tricia and gives me problems. I don't know what to do. I told her once if you keep up the lieing I will leave your father she stopped for a while and yeah she had to start back up again. I keep telling my now Husband to tell his ex wife to get her tested for Bipolar and to get her on med. but that is not going to happen. So really I don't know what to do. she has down grated me and called me names stoll from me and lied to others about me...I can't even have my two kids around her because of her action's that is how bad she is. someone help me.