Anyone have a sd that is a teenager, but acts like she is 6 or 7???
Ok...my sd is rather weird! Get this..she is 14 and acts like she is 7. We went out for lunch yesterday and she started talking in baby talk and wanted her daddy to set by her because she did not want to set on the other side of the table all alone.
Then before we ordered she says out loud. I jsut texted my mom because I dont know what to eat. She willtext me back and tell me what I want????
Then its time to order and she does not want to order the food. She asks her father to tell the waitress what she wants.
Lastly, the entire time we were eating she was talking to her father and asking if he remembered so and so from his ex family. The whole conversation was about the ex family. Like I want to set there and here that shit!
It was like she was just trying to get under my skin
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for the most part yes. She
for the most part yes. She was the baby until we had her half brother.
Last year she just learned to put things in the mircowave. I taught her that becasue I was tired of having to fix her plates.
She doesnt cut her meat or fix her baked potatoes.
I think she does it for attention!
It just makes me so mad!
that is scary. She is almost
that is scary. She is almost old enough to drive but she doesnt know how to take care of her self. Does she need a shrink or do you think it is just for the attention? Have you talked to your Husband about this?
I think she does it for
I think she does it for attention. I think from seeing her in action that she is a brat and lier!
But, it is like her mother and father are blinded. They think she is the prefect child! I know becasue I have a child that everyone thinks their child is wonderful, but they really are blinded! It really scares me!
My SD is the same exact way.
My SD is the same exact way. I believe it comes from SO and BM raising her with such entitlement she has no idea of the real world. If you are brought up thinking everyone in the whole world thinks you are the greatest thing to ever breathe this type of behavior will follow.
Yesterday we were all home fixing lunch just warming up leftovers. SO warmed up his lunch and SD stands there with her pouty face "what about me"?? she says I'll take your lunch that looks good. So he gave her his lunch and warmed up something different. Later she laughs and says " I just took over your lunch" he said nothing. She thinks the world revolves around her and that is her reality. She wanted to go to the grocery store with me but first she asks SO to make sure it was safe for her to get in my car :jawdrop: I was like WTF I drive a brand new freaking car. But oh no princess thought that maybe the car was loaded down with all her Christmas presents and she didn't want to accidently see them Whatever }:)
I have the same problems with
I have the same problems with Miss Snitchy! She will be 18 in February, and she is about 5 in her head! She has flunked 8th grade 3 times! She plays with the kindergarten kids during breaks at school
(She came home from school with a bruise on her knee, I asked what happened, she replied: " I slid on the gym floor playing KICK BALL BASES WITH THE LITTLE KIDS"
All 4 of our other teenagers are straightening their hair, doing make up, chilling with friends, and she is playing kick ball with 6 year olds!
And her daddy looooooves it, he says she's so sweet, she's in touch with her inner child, she's his "baby girl"!
OH MY GOD!
At her age, I had a full time job and my own apartment!!!!!
At 18 I was married I'll be
At 18 I was married :O I'll be lucky if SD ever even moves out of our house.
Oh yes. My SS-19 was
Oh yes. My SS-19 was probably 6-8 years behind the maturity curve in his early to mid teens. Not that he could not function. He is extremely smart and well behaved. It was just odd for a teen to synch more readily with much, much younger children and gravitate more to much younger kid entertainment, etc....
Eventually he worked his way through the maturity gap to at least close it to ~3yrs. The military has sure helped though I still see fairly regular and fairly strong evidence of a notable maturity gap.
The baby behavior crap was intermittently very strong and correlated to the ~10 day ramp up to SpermClan visitation with an even stronger post SpermLand visitation detox of about 3-4wks.
When he was 8-12ish and his 3 younger also oowl SpermIdiot half sibs by two other baby mamas were 2-7ish it was extremely notable. They got attention acting like babies so he adapted to that behavior to get his SpermGrandMa's attention.
Wow, you just described my SD
Wow, you just described my SD to a tee. She is 19 and says with pride "I might be 19 in years but I am 5 inside". Talks baby talk, orders off the kids' menu at restaurants, has never had even a part-time job and refuses to try to learn to drive. When asked what she wanted for her birthday she said coloring books and play dough!
DH refuses to take to any restaurant but McDonald's because he is embarrassed by her behavior. I have tried to teach her to cook easy things like scrambled eggs, spaghetti, grilled cheese and she says she isn't interested.
She flunked out of college after one semester and now sits at BM's all day playing games on her laptop and watching cartoons.