So last night we did not have SD16...She called us about 11:00PM crying because BM was high on Rx meds and talking stupid....Long story short she did not want us to pick her up because she was worried about BM....So I tell dad he needs to do something about this because this is hurting SD....He says he is going to talk to BM today...Well just got call from dad and he says he needs to talk to SD first to see if this is ok....ARE YOU F^&*ing kidding me!!!! BM is hurting SD, making her issues alot worse what is there to talk about she is a child DO SOMETHING!!!!! I do not understand this. So I vent to my BFF who is also her aunt and she tells me to get used to it because stopping SD from being with BM will make SD more with dad and deep down dad doesnt want that responsibilty.....OMG I hope that is not the case....I told dad she is just a child and she is being hurt by her BM emotionally...She needs to get the hell away from her at least limit the days if nothing....What do I do with this? I can not understand why dad would continue to allow his daughter to go somewhere where BM is making issues alot worse for SD....Advice?