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I just feel so bad

sowicked's picture

I just don't like them. They are not difficult or anything. They are just a financial and emotional burden. I just can not find it in me to like them let alone love them...My husband wants me to be a mother figure. I don't even want to be friends with them.

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Mom2TwinsnTeens's picture

It's okay to feel that way. They're not yours, despite your husbands wish for you to be that mom to them.

Step mad's picture

I know how you feel, my wife wants me to be involved with my stepsons school and sports activities but I can't stand being with him for 30 seconds, simply because he knows it all he has seen it all at the age of 13, my wife joins in the activity he tells her know mommy you are wrong no mom no mom that's not it, just drives me bananas :sick: also bed time is at 9 o'clockhe will find anyway to stay up past 9, weather it is I need a bowl of cereal, they're all of a sudden he is interested in anything on tv, I could do you watching the science channel, which coincidentally he hates, but after 9 o'clock he likes it