I have been with my husband for 13 years almost 14 married for 8 years just about. My DH has 3 kids the Evil spawn SS who is 19 and lives with us and twill 14 year old SS. My Dh and BM split up before the twin SS were born. She has been a hateful wench ever since her anger has never went away she is a fake I am a saved christian in public and the devil in private. Well she could no longer handle my SS 2 years ago so he was sent to us. She has basically cut him out of the family. Well my 2 almost 3 he has been here have been hell he has abused my dogs and been physically abusive with me and my belongings. he hates me as well and I finally have had enough O I went to the Magistrate and have had Eviction papers processed so he should get served next week. DH is in the middle but he agrees that hi evil spawn hs crossed over the line this time and he understands why I need him out. It sucks it has to be this way but I never have had any chance to bond with any of my SS so I have no connection to them. I do not feel bad at thsi point as I have given him so many chances and at 19 it's time to see what the world is about. See waht it takes to care for yourself. Ia m not stopping DH from having a relationship with him just not anywhere near my home. Thanks for listing this is a wonderful sight as I think it is so hard being a stepparent and we need all the help we can get.