REALLY DUDE your kids are grown

We have been married for 4 years now and DH will not stop talking about what i don't do for his kids. I really wish he would shut already . You kids are all grown 2 are married so shut up. I am not taking care of grown people and especially those that don't like me Kids are 21,24,25
REALLY !!!!

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What does he want you to do

What does he want you to do for them?

Give them money ,gas, just

Give them money ,gas, just give them anything that I have because I have 2 BIO's that are still in the house and in college that I still take care of . But he thinks I should do the same for his ,

Why does he think that is

Why does he think that is your responsibility?

If it were me, I'd auto

If it were me, I'd auto respond with the word "adults" every time he said the word "kids" or "children."

Good one !!!! I have 2 boi

Good one !!!! I have 2 boi that are in college and still at home. But i have been a singel parent for years b4 him and I have always spoiled my kids in a good way because they are very great kids, never gave me once of trouble, And he was not one to spoil and over do it as he say with his kids, But he wants me to do it . Nope they don't even like me

Not a thing , Don't even text

Not a thing , Don't even text to just say hi,, but hubby said I am the adult so I should do it anyway , ( i say nope they are adults also )
I cooked for a whole year for them to come by and fellowship with us so i could get to know them , they came stayed all but 10 minutes and carried all the food away

Entitled Attitude. His kids

Entitled Attitude. His kids his responsibility. It is that simple.

They are adults and even if they were still children, HELLO it rude that they do not thank you, acknowledge you, and/or your investment in them.

You teach a child to say thank you don't you? So if they are still children why has he stopped teaching them....tell him HIS children need to be taken care of by him and while he is at it, he need to teach them some basic manners.

"And carried all the food

"And carried all the food away" CTBB used to do that to me! That and stand at the breakfast bar and stuff his gob because he didn't "believe" in family dinners. DH got mad at me because I didn't go to CTBB's SECOND wedding (1st wife ran screaming after 4 years, no kids thank God), money was tight w/ 2 in college AND I didn't have any time on the books at work. So I told DH that I would make it up by going to CTBB's 5th wedding anniversary- if he made it. }:) ot-CTBB has a SS with his new wife and he's always calling DH telling him what an ass the kid is! Sweet,sweet karma strikes again!And the kid IS an ass! He called my DD's and thier cousins "lesbos" at the wedding and ruined every picture he was in by scowling! LOL!