I want to thank all of you for your help. it is hard to speak up because she has such attitude when told anything. so i will try to note writing. as for her taking over the downstairs, she sort of is getting the hint... but still insists sitting with us when all i really want is to have a nice, private conversation with my husband.
i have put up with alot of shit for the near three years we have been together. most of it is from the two sd's one who is 18 who lives with her best friend because she likes partying instead of going to school. also the bm who has tried to control my husband with her games. but he is learning.
what do you all say about a sd who spends two hours in the am doing her makeup? It's good she has no classes before noon so she can get up at nine or ten everyday.
I have no patience for such frivolity.