BM called BF at work, started talking about something involving her 'new' job so he said he was busy and she asked him to call her later. Which he didn't because he doesn't care about her or her job. So she txt him today and asked why he didn't call her last night and txted a bunch of stuff about the kids schooling - which does interest him, but that is not what he thought she wanted to talk about.

She is working on something for her job and wants information from BF about his job/career, to report back to her boss I guess. He keeps telling her to contact some one else - some who higher up and more official than he is. Plus her almost husband is in the SAME line of work - why not ask him?

I think she just wants to talk to BF and feel important. It's sucks that BF missed a chance to talk about the kids but not once in their brief conversation did she say anything about the boys so why would he think that she wanted to talk about them? Plus she needs to stop calling him at work on his work phone, unless it's really important. you know?

I suggested that he call her tonight and if she gets off topic tell her (again) that he just wants to talk about the kids.

I am annoyed because she has even suggested that BF quit his job to do this thing with her employer. I said don't even think about it unless you hear from her boss, she could be lying and it kind or sounds like it won't happen. She tends to lie A LOT.