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Submitted by 88aussie on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 6:16pm

Hi, Can someone help me to sort put these feelings that i am having, i am enagaged to a great man to gether we have one daughte and one due in 2012, he has a daughter to a previous person that is 6 years old, i am finding it really hard to like her, i have been with my fiance for 4 years. we have full coustody of his daughter he works full time so i look after her all the time from getting her ready for school to home work bathing and making dinner for her, i dont like doing it, i really dont like her living in my house, i go to visit my family have a great time with them all but the monet i know i have to go home i get really upset, angry and dont want to go back to my own house, it feel like a prison in my own home, i feel like the only place i want to to be is in my room away from her!! Is it bad to feel like this, Am i a bad person to say these things??

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Submitted by 88aussie on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 6:34pm

I have been thinking for ages what i want and it is to stay and her to go but that will never happen, my little family is wrecked because of this child, makes me sick feeling like this, i confront my fiance and he turns it round on me and makes me feel worse about the whole situation, I am at the point where i have put my hands up and said i cant do this anymore...i am ready to leave not to meet another person and start again but to be happy with my kids..

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Submitted by g-nuh on Sun, 08/07/2011 - 8:26pm

sometimes i feel the same way. i am engaged, been with my fiance a year and a half and he has a 6 year old daughter. i do most of the caregiving too - he works nights. sometimes it is just flat out miserable. i wish i had good advice for you (and me)! what is it about her that you dont like?

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Submitted by 88aussie on Fri, 08/12/2011 - 2:49am

It is everything that i dont like about her, i dont know if people feel like this but she is just not a likeable child..Believe me when i say this but i have REALLY TRIED TO LIKE HER but i cant....six years....six years i have been trying... I just feel lost most of the time, she says horrible things to her father which makes me so angry and i feel sorry for him, but at the same time i think can you not see that she is not happy here she does not like being apart of our family, leave her and let her go until she is older to want to have something to do with you.................. Am i being a slefish B**** or no??