Hi

I have got SD who is six she spends the mayority of her time with me and my FDH, her BM went on holiday in March (leaving SD brhind with us claiming she couldn't afford to take her) when she come back she annonced that she had met a lad over there and is now seeing him (fine nothing to do with us right?). she then the week later annoces that she is going back on holiday over there soon and want to take SD with her to met her fella she asked FDH to do some sort of letter for the authorities and his passport details not a problem she wants to take her BD on holiday i think thats great it will be a good experiance for my SD to see some of the world and spend some actual time with her BM. i just think it a bit weierd that she wants to introduce her to her new fella when they only been 2gether 2mins so i then whent on FB and seen a few status that she had put on saying how much she hates this country and that she wishes she could move away and that she loves her fella i just got feeling from a few little things my SD has said that BM will not bring her back once she is over there, FDH has not written letter for the authorities yet we are not sure what to do please anyone all advise much appreciated!!