Last year, around the time my husbands ex found out she would not be getting child support as there was no order and she refused him is equal visitation my step daughter 2 at the time started saying I hit her. I was pregnant at the time and was devastated. I have never hit her. She would say it when we were all around people all the time and for the most part everyone knew it wasn’t true. Now she is 3 and HATES me. I cry all the time. I cant discipline her and I am so afraid she will say I am abusing her in some way and if she does my ex will try to take my bio boys from me as he is looking for something not to mention my baby that is 4 mo old. I fear it was her mom being mad at me because before I was around he paid her what ever she said to and got to see her when ever the ex said he could. It was too much disruption in our home. I said they needed an agreement in writing protecting his rights. But the SD is awful to be around now. I get sick when it gets close to her time with us. I get depressed and I live in fear of every little injury she may get. I want her gone so I can live in peace and not have this depression when she is around. There are a lot of problems in my marriage and I don’t want to lose my new baby because of this added bull. I want to disengage but how when I am left alone with her all the time and I don’t want to be accused of neglect? I am so scared as her mom is also a trained therapist and I am just a regular mom doing the best I can. God I am so scared of this I try to stay away as much as I can and lose out on my family because of it. She acts like a spoiled brat and screams for her daddy even when he is not there and it causes my boys to cry and my baby… I am so lost.