About to get married in a few months. I have one son from a previous relationship and about to have a stepson. His behavior is openly disrespectful towards me I am feed up but I love his mother so much she makes me so happy and we're good together. I have bent over backwards to make sure he is comfortable. I refuse to buy his love. He is only 11 years old and thinks it's ok to stand up to me. Every time he does it I feel like knocking him thru a wall. I never had a problem with kids in my past relationships and I do pretty decent with own. It's sad some of antics cause me and his mother to go head up and sometimes brings our whole day day. We have a crappy support system grandparents come when they want to and father is just absent I like I am playing several roles with no supporting cast. So drained at this point I don't know what to do.