Until reading what others have to say I don't feel all alone here. My husband has 2 children from a previous marriage. His Daughter lives with her mother she is sweet His 20 year old son lives with us It has been 4 years going on 5 and I am tired of all the drama my stepson brings here I can't count all the times he has got violent. He has this problem where he wants to be in control over his father and me. He feels like his entitled to whatever he wants He got us kicked out of our first place when he was 17 getting into fights with little 12 year old kids and had the cops around at least 2 times a week and every time anything goes wrong he never starts it. He was so out of control that a Childs mother threaten to beat me up and actually chased my sisters in a car (wrong on her part) then we moved and at the next place he caused trouble there he stuffed a sock in someone’s tailpipe put a condom on someone’s door and spray painted some guys marsdies he turned 18 there and they kicked him out so he moved to a friends and then started trouble there threatening to burn the person he was staying with house down ended up getting a restraining order there so he moved to another and got arrested with a bail of $10,000 bond because of grand theft I guess something worth $5,000 or more now he has a felony we decided to let him sit there and he blames everyone because no one would put up the money or their property to get him out yeah he had to sit in jail for thanksgiving and Christmas but that’s what he gets so me and my husband moved into a house and allowed him to come stay under certain rules my stepson had to work well he work but then ended up always fighting and wanting to control everything he ended up getting violent and pushed his father off the porch full force I call the cops again and they took pictures of my husbands face the fight started out because my stepson was being a smart mouth and demanding and I said since you want to treat us that way we don't have to buy you cigarettes and my stepson smashed his head thru the door and made a hole so I said that is it I am taking something of yours until you pay for the damages you caused over cigarettes and he came at me my husband protected me the got in a fight ended up thinking about eviction but it was too hard for my husband and I couldn't stand to see the hurt and I understand it was hard so we came up with a idea we said he is over 18 and we talked it over with my stepson and he ended up staying in a camper for a month and then problems started there between him and the owner so we just don't understand why can't he get along with anyone my husband and I had to talk and we didn't want him homeless out on the streets but we can't allow him to live with us due to his behavior so we said he can live out in the back yard in a tent we provided electric and he was allowed in the house to use restroom, to eat and watch TV a couple hours at one point he took a razor blade to my mustang and now the passenger side is peeling and tacky looking well his father talked his son into going to job corps and he had problems there but he got better in some behavior problems he doesn't get violent and he has been seeming to be on the right path until he met a girl he still has no job but that isn't the worst of it he was sneaking this girl over and we found out and he got so mad he left that night with his camper at 12am and when he was ready to talk about issues he was getting anger and rage I said your problems have been on our backs way to long and now you want to take in some girls problems when you can't even take care of your self I said I am not saying you are one but people out in the world would call you a mooch, looser because that is what you are doing you are mooching of us spend ing the little money you get on yourself then expecting us to take care of your needs I said no more and told him if he doesn't have money to get cigarettes and gas because he spent it all that is his problem not ours anyway it calmed down but I am tired of it and this what I have said in this is not even half of the stuff he has put us through hope for a better day today......