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Hi everyone sorry been sick and cleaning and a vent

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:29pm

Hey I had broncitis and I had an allergic reacton to my meds then I cleaned out my computer desk and un hooked everything and just now putting it all back. LOL

Anyway dropped the boys off sunday to the bm and she HAD to text that my dd doesn't look anything like me. She said she is amazed at how much she doesn't look like me. She went well over board keep sayng and tryng to pound it in. WHY??? :?

But reality is that my dd looks so much like me that her friends that I haven't met yet from her class will stop me and ask if I'm her mom as she looks just like me. Dd is never with me when that happens.

This has been an on going thing for the last years. I have ignored her but I am beyond enough is enough mode. Ya know? How know about it is that we were driving home and she texted dh so i read his text not knowing who it was. As I read it to him I just shook my head at how stupid it makes her look. She even went so far as to say that her and the boys were talking about how much dd does't look like me. Now ss15 called dh b/c he left his charger and he mentioned it saying that bm did not talk to them that she just said that but he thinks that dd does look just like me.

there is more abut ss15 but I'll blog about that in another blog.

I am so tempted to just text her back but what and I don't know i just want her to shut up mainly. Yes dh has told her over and over that my kids are not up for discussion. that doesn't work neither does iignoring. What to do???

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Submitted by lexaprotakemeaway on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:41pm

"She went well over board keep sayng and tryng to pound it in. WHY???"

umm... cause she's a bitch. so just ignore the bullshit drama the bitch is trying to start. she's just trying to get a rise out of you. Wink

i wouldn't even text her back. just delete it and act like you never saw it. the more you don't react, the sooner she'll shut it and go on with her own pathetic life and try to fuck with someone else. Smile

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:49pm

Normally I would agree and that is how I have done it so far. But it has been 8 years and she still hasn't shut up. I agree she is just trying to be a witch but get over it already. Yes I have a girl and she looks just like me.

BM, Sorry you don't have a girl but not my fault. Just leave me alone and quit using my dd to make yourself better or whatever it is that you are tryng to do.

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Submitted by lexaprotakemeaway on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:47pm

or, if she's one of those that won't let you ignore it.. text her back and tell her that you don't mean to be overt or rude, but you heard something that she should know... you heard she had aids. lol...

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:54pm

lol funny. My mil thinks she s fishing for info. I didn't understand til she said that bm thinks that dh is my dd's dad as we got together before they got married. Dh said he should take it nand run with it to mess with her. of course that was a joke but he as at that point too. He is just tired of the crap she comes up with and this is somethng she has kept going for all these years. plus bm said she wishes she could see a pic of dd's dad b/c she looks nothing like her mom. that is why mil said she thnks bm thnks that dd is dh's. DD is not dh's but hey dh can pull off tht story to her b/c of the time line. LOL.

dd's dad is dead, he died when she was 8.

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Submitted by lexaprotakemeaway on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 10:59pm

awww, i'm sorry about your dd's dad.. that's sad :(.

with the bm.. who knows. some of them are just so certifiable you can't figure them out.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 11:07pm

Thanks, I don't know what to do I mean I feel have ignored her for all these years and still is saying the same thing over and over til my ears bleed, at least it seems like it. Blum 3

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Submitted by simifan on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 11:14pm

I'd just say, yeah I know she looks like her dad & leave it at that. Let her wonder. I learned long ago, that people see what they want regardless of those pesky things called facts.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 11:20pm

I know facts is something she s good with. lol She has lost a few case workers b/c she refuses to accept facts. Like dh is not behind in CS and other things like that. lol

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Submitted by sixteensmom on Mon, 04/04/2011 - 11:43pm

Next time, say this. Wow bm, you know, since you keep bringing it up, and lots of people say she looks just like dh, so just to be sure we are going to do a paternity test and if she is dhs bio dd i will file for cs, and sorry bm but your share will be going down.

I suspect she will shut up because bitches like that are only out for two things. To hurt people, and money.

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Submitted by skylarksms on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:23am

If you HAD to respond, I would go with, "How long has it been since you had an eye exam? I think your sight is going."

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 10:12am

LOL love these! I was told last night from a 'friend' that I should agree with her. I said why should agree with something thst is clearly not true??? :jawdrop:

I would rather not respond at all.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 10:37am

I see what you are saying however I have never responded so how does she know she is getting to me? I have ingored her all these years. I would think tht after 8 years she would get bored with no response?

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 10:58am

No my ss15 said that bm did not talk to them about it lke she said in her text. ss15 saw her text and wanted to tell dh that bm did not talk to them and she made that up.

ss15 talks to me he told me he feels he an come to me with anything, his words, get frustrated with him but it is normal kid crap. He knows that he is a smart kid and understands more than bm thinks he does. Ss15 told me that he tries not to say anything to her about us and all he does is give yes or no answers. The other 2 are in thier own world and don't pay any attention but it is possiable that she may have baggered them enough to tell her what she wants to hear so they may have said yes it gets to her. However I have never said anything in front of them. interesting thanks for the insight.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 11:35am

First I don't talk to her she texts this stuff to dh's phone never in person or directly to me. second I'm not that creative or fast to think of something like that off the top of my head. I am a very striaght forward person and perfer to jsut tell them it is none fo their business. But I can't do that wth her she just ignores it and continues to text crap. it doesn't matter if we ignore it or respond.