Dh had the kids this weekend but when he got there to pick them up bm announced that ss15 had to stay home for football. She told him he could pick him up on sat. when it was over. Dh told her he could take him to his football thing, bm refused like normal.
So sat came and I needed to go to town for a few things, bm called and said dh can get ss15 only that she refuses to met us any where b/c she is sick. However she said he needed to hurry b/c she was going to the hospital to see her friend. Dh asked her if she is too sick to meet us then why go to the hospital and make them sick. She said she is on the rag and she will not run all over the place. I told dh that I and wiling to meet her in town but not 2 towns over where she wants us too. Where we were was more than half way to her house. More then reasonable. Just b/c she is on the rag does not make her special. Plus I told him that not too long ago dh was sick so sick that he running a fever and throwing up and she still refused to come to get the kids and we had to meet her where she said! I am done doing favors for this woman.
Dh and I got into really bad over this. I told him fine then drop me off at the store I want to go and you pick him up. He didn't want to do that. Him and bm got into a huge fight. Then she wanted to know why we were in town. Dh told her it was none of her business. She then said that everything is her business. I was joking with dh and told him to tell her that since everything is her business that we had sex last night and he can give details if she wanted. He then told her that!!! She of course got mad and said she didn't need to hear that and thought he was more mature then that. He then reminded her that everything is her business! She didn't like that too much. It really was funny.
So anyway she refused to meet us anywhere and refused to let dh have ss15.
B/c of this dh told bm that he is no longer going to her house to pick the boys up but there will meet half way from now on (which is what I have been trying to get him to do b/c bm seems to thing we should do all the driving).
To my surprise she agreed to meet half way. I wonder of the little sex comment put it in way for her that let her know very clearly that she is not part of life! I don't know however I took a pic of her at pick up. LOL I only did that b/c she keeps making comments about how ugly I am and that she beautiful and can't understand why dh left her. This way I can show my friends and family, no posting it.