As the timeing works in our favore I have went to stay at my wifes parents home to help them pack and move cause they have to be out in about 10 days and my father in law is ill. Wifes parents whom I'm close to do not know what is going on and we both decided to not say anything at this time. They have enough to worry about. This gives my wife and SD time to talk and we hope repair their relationship and wife is looking for counciling for them. Was it the right thing to do to leave for few days to give them space