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Can't stand to be around this kid!!

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I've been with for fiance 6 1/2 years now and have been engaged for 1 year. When I met him, his son was 5 and my son was 6. I never clicked with his son. We had a baby 1 year later. There has always been issues with this child being rude in the beginning. I tried my best to teach him manners but still could'nt stand to ba around him. When I was pregnant, he gave me such a hard time that whenever I think about my pregnancy it makes me sick and disgusted because of this child. About 2 years ago, I gave my boyfriend an alternative that either I need to go or his son does. He sent him off, he still visited for breaks but I always tried to keep away and deal with it for that short time. One week ago, my fiance told me that the child's mom was having relationship issues and that he is taking his son back. I did not agree on that and dropped it. I got home the next night and there was his child already in bed. I almost had a heart attack. I havent talked to my fiance since that child has been here. I'm sick to my stomach and have been crying and very emotional. I am currently in school and working full time, can't wait to graduate in 2 years and get the hell out. Not sure how long I can take it. I love my fiance but can't deal with this child. He's not that bad anymore but he's a daddy's boy and really gets on my nerves. When his dad is not home, he keeps his dadis not home, he keeps his distance but when his dad is there, he gets brave and wants to show off and get crazy and loud.Please give me some advice!!!