Do you ever feel like your husband is still married to the ex....I feel like that at times! I need some help friends!!!
Disclaimer.... I am not the jealous wife! Please know that right off the bat!
Sometimes I feel though that the ex is talked to and treated better than the way I get treated.
Here is the background of the story.....Yesterday morning my husband woke up with his ear hurting him. We had some drops but they were not what he really wanted. His daughter, who was with us this weekend and is 13 years of age, has major ear troubles.
Instead of asking the 13 year old daughter if she knew if she had any better ear drops or getting her to call her mother aka the ex to see if she did. My husband calls and tells the ex how bad his ear is hurting him and was wonderding if she had any eardrops. Well of course, this was a 2 hr event.....the ex had to call back about 5 times to talk to my husband to read off all the details of meds. And to sum up the story...she didnt have anything that we didnt already have. The entire time I was witnessing this I was thinking to myself.
1.) He talks so much nicer to her than me at times.
2.) Could he not have ask the 13 year old to communicate back and forth.
3.) If the ex finds the ear drops...I may tell the husband to let her put them in.
This is not the first time that things like this have happened. I feel at times like I share my husband with the ex. This is just one instance and after a bunch of instances it kinda begins to sting a bit.
What do ya'll think about this? Its actually kind of funny to sit back and watch how they act.
I really deep down know that my husband loves me and would never go back to her....but a side of me just doesnt like how they act.
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Ha ha! That is just
Ha ha! That is just familiarity. It IS annoying and kinda pathetic. Perhaps he'd like her to make him a pallet on her couch so she can fluff his pillow, cover him with a warm blankie and sooth him with a heating pad too. (this sarcasm is meant to entertain you)
In a man's mind, they are about the facts...he is trying to fix his ear. That is probably all it is, but GAG. I still talk to my ex sometimes, but it is purely non emotional and factual.
I have severe ear problems and it gets to the point I want to do almost anything to make it go away. Perhaps his is making him desperate...LOL.
Thank you for the
Thank you for the laugh...that is sooo what I want and need!!! I have to look at it that way!
I have no advice but it made
I have no advice but it made me think of the instance my H told me of when he kicked BM out of his place... He had an extremely bad toothache and he couldn't handle her "yappin' like a poodle" while going through that kind of pain!
I used to feel like that with
I used to feel like that with BM3 when we first got together because she would call all the freaking time and he would stop what he was doing to deal with her. It was very disruptive.
I no longer feel that way.
BM3 and I had a good relationship after DH and I had been together about 6 months. Well, she really annoys the crap out of DH, and he learned some things about her recently through the grapevine that basically made him decide that he would like to have as little to do with her as possible. She came to SD4s birthday party at the beginning of the month, and he used our baby as an excuse to go hide out as soon as the candles were blown out. After she left, he sat us down for a family meeting and said she is not to be invited here again, and if I want to see her, I can take it somewhere else, but that's that. I don't want to see her again, so now we do pick up and drop off at the daycare where she has SD during her parenting time. Other than that, there's basically no reason for her to be here, so she hasn't been. I think she's gotten the message, because she hasn't been calling or texting me either.