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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 01/14/2011 - 11:19am

I hurt my dh's feels really bad but I didn't mean too. It was on Rags blog about marriage. While I posted was true it was not the whole story. He reads some of my blogs and knows I am here, he is truly a wonderful and great husband and father. He tries so hard to be better at both which is why he reads.

See when we had the turning point in our lives as I have posted I was just as much as fault. I was talking to my exH which was very stupid as he is in prison and won't get out for a while. Dh found out about my plans and after he thought about it be realized that he wasn't doing something right himself for me to be talking to him the way i was.

So we both were in the wrong and me more so as I should have come to him and told him how I was feeling instead of doing what I did. It was a lot of things combined with being in the role of sm and everything that comes with it.

It was a time of reflection for both us and what we both truly wanted. We both have made the choice to make our marriage the #1 priority in our lives to make it the best it can be.

I have to tell you it is working very well and it has been about a year. It is getting stronger every day.

This is very hard for me to admit what I did. It was wrong and of course it wasn't just normal talking either. I hurt my exh as well as my dh. Plus I hurt him a little more with the post on Rags blog and for that I am apologize.

thanks for reading.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 01/14/2011 - 11:29am

Thanks I just want my dh to know i didn't do it on purpose I was mainly shorting the story but it came out as him being the bad guy when I was just as much at fault.

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Submitted by ddakan on Sat, 01/15/2011 - 5:13pm

Well, if DH read ANYTHING I wrote here he would be terribly hurt and offended. This is a place where we can shorten the story, rant out loud, say things we don't mean (like die BM) and generally vent.

I'm not completely honest in real life, so I enjoy being able to come here and be completely honest. I save my DHs feelings by not telling him certain things. I save my family because they don't have to hear it.

I'm sad your DH found your venting blog and took it the wrong way. I'm keeping this site and my involvement to myself. It is my reward for enduring the skids for 10+ years.

Ok, maybe I do want BM to die, but it won't be me causing her death. It will probably be from one of her druggie boyfriends.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Mon, 01/17/2011 - 10:34am

I don't hide anything and I had it up not really thinking too much about it. I keep up pulled up all the time. Dh knows I'm here and always has even the last one I was in he knew. I knows I had a hard time adjusting to having 3 more kids. I never wanted more then my 2. I don't say anything here that I haven't already said to him. I am very lucky as he is very understanding.