what ss15 thinks of his mom
I blogged last night that I said something to ss15 about that we got info that he hates dh and why. SS15 was angry and asked if his mom was spreading lies again. After the talk with dh ss15 said that the only disability his mom has is in her head! And that she needs help!
So now that we know how ss15 really feels how can we help him and the others? I did tell him that he can look up things on the computer and read if he wants and ask questions but he is a teen. I left it at that.
The other 2 aren't as vocal as he is so I really don't know what they think but I do know that all 3 turn their phones off so she can't call them while they are here. She has to call dh or text him and normally when he tells the boys to call their mom they 'forget' LOL...
I don't want to put things in their heads so I'm sort afraid to bring it up to them but then I really need to know what they are feeling too. But if they don't bring it up should I?
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I meant it in a way that it
I meant it in a way that it affects us. Such as do they have an issue coming to our house or with me or their dad as bm says they do? I would hate for them to keep it bottled up. B/c IF they are having the issues that bm say they are we need to know. Sorry if i wasn't clear I can see how you took it that way. I should have been more specific. Should I just ask them if they have an issue with us or coming here? I wouldn't say that their mom said this or that but simply ask "do you have an issue with us that needs to be addressed?"
We have already cleared the air with ss15 last night so I'm not talking about him. It is the otehr 2 they are 13 and 11.
Finey I have always done
Finey I have always done that. When they ask me to teach them something I do. That is when they mainly talk to me. Such as when I was teaching ss15 then 12 to cook he told me that his mom would never allow him to do those things b/c she wanted him to be little for as long as possible but he wanted to learn to take care of himself. Poor kid didn't even know how to use a toaster before I came along. None of them knew what a plug in was!