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Submitted by pe5b on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 1:10am

Me and my ex have been seperated for 11 years now. I had his son and he made me take my cloths off beat me with a horse wipe for 4 hours and than told me to go to work when i was leaving i had grabed a basket of clean cloth by the door and left for good. But I am married now and happy But he told my son to lye to a consler that the court had appointed to us becouse he took me for custedy he told my son he was going to go to jail for not paying child support so my son said he wanted to live with is dad to keep him out of jail.
Today i called my son i have not see him in 2 mounths. My son told me that he never wants to see me and that his dads girlfriend is his mother . My ex told me that he would get him from me when i had left him . When i could talk to my son on the phone tthay had it on speaker and recourded it . My son is 11 now and i dont now what to do i need a help to get through this it is hurting me so bad.
My ex has children from 4 women and one killed her self becouse he keep her kid away from her i need another persons view from this

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Submitted by MaGoose2010 on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 3:06am

My dear, you need to see a lawyer and take your ex to court. To:

1) get a divorce

2) sue for custody of your child

3) get your child away from his father and into therapy

Hope this helps you. It's a tough one, and I don't know all the history, but with his history of physical and mental abuse of you in your marriage, you will have a good case against him.

Good luck. I am sure there are others who can give you lots more advice, so stay on this site and let others help and advise you.

All the best & hugs
MG

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Submitted by Bojangles on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 5:46am

Anything your son says and does at the moment is based on lies from his father. Ignore it. Your son loves you, he is confused and misled. Focus on getting your son away from his father and as the 2 other comments suggest, get legal help to do this. As a minimum you are legally entitled to access to your son. Given the abuse you should have sole custody.

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Submitted by renae911 on Fri, 10/08/2010 - 8:58am

Get an attorney right way. At least you are out now. And your son will know the truth eventually. No judge will keep the child from the mother for no reason. Well most judges. And they always try to keep the family together. They get very upset when they here one parent is takeing time away from another