so FDH, this morning tells me as i was walking out the door for work the skids have interviews this morning at a top private school...

i have always known they would be going to a good school, but now got a call from FDH and they have gotten into this new school, which is $20,000 a year each child!! yes that’s correct.... we live in a nice area that DFH was already living and i really don’t like it at all, its very showy and i wasn't raised that way and feel so uncomfortable there, but i was promised we could move a bit further out when the kids have gotten into school..back to my area where i lived before we moved in together, because of a nice school out that way. BM then found out and has decided she squash those plans and enrolled them into the top school in our state. (which she expects FDH to pay for all school fees plus all costs on top ie uniforms, laptops and camps!) (almost 50k a year!!!!!)

Now i didn’t get a word in what area the kids would go to school as they are not my childern... that’s not fair i only get told after the decision was made by FDH and BM...

its my life as well i should at lest get what i was promised, now im stuck here.. i cant afford to live here, if the kids get into this school we will be living off baked beans forever!

did this happen this anyone else? as in did you get a say in anything where you lived depending on the skids school. im just not sure what say i do have in it?