Can someone help me to understand I love a very pretty women which i fell in love with over nine years ago i have two step daughters one is 23 the other is 14.early in our relationship i gave up my house to live with her were she has a trailer that is about 75 feet from us her mother.she has alaways done all the kids work and i mean everything for these girls. ive watched her fold all there clothes cook all there meals and to never thank any one for anything.I have sat over the years and watch there mother work to the bone only to have these girls ask for everything and never help us out the oldest has never had a job but once were she could not get along with the staff she has been to school only to quite because it was to hard on her! she has never like me only when i buy stuff now her comes the 14 year old they never say thank you, i love you, or anything that can be some form of respect. I have bought these girls so many things they only rember there birthdays i have left the house because there is so much yelling i have asked my wife how we can get the oldest to move out, her response is when she is ready. I make more then enough money to buy us a house should i just buy one and let the oldest just have that one i just want these girls to respect me and all other adults my wife is only taking up for them all the time and we have a four year old that is living in a unhealthy home please help me out how can a make this work?