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I am a single mom of one a daughter, she is 8 years old and will be 9 in a few months. I have been with my fiance for 3 years and he has a daughter that is 5 years old and she will be 6 in a few months. My daughter adores my fiance and loves his little girl, she calls her a sister. They fight like normal kids but nothing to bad. Well I just found out that the 5 year old has been telling her mom and her grandma that me and my little girl is mean to her. Of course my fiance knows this to not be true since he is around the whole time. The 5 year old tends to lie a lot, she has told her mom that her dad said the Niger word, which is not true. She also says that her mom wont let her call her Dad sometimes, and constantly makes up things. we have been dealing with these issues that she has head on as they come. The thing is I do not want her constantly saying bad things about me and my daughter that are not true and then come to are house and tell us how much she loves us, and wants us take her out. I give 110% when she is over, I try and have something planned to do for the girls when she is here. I don't do anything different then if she wasn't here. If she pushes or hits then she take time outs. Her own Grandma told my fiance that she likes to see him and her mom fight. She also said that the 5 year old girl is very multiplicative little girl. I told her if she really feels that we are mean then she can spend the weekends with her Father at her grandparents house. She did not like that idea, so I told her that she needed to stop making up lies about me and my child, if she wanted to keep on spending nights at my house. I don't want to be so extreme but I don't know what else I can do. If anybody else has any options let me know.