im 23 years old my husband is 29 i me and my husband have an eight month old daughter and he has a seven year old from an ex girlfriend. i always told myself id never date a guy with kids because to me its nothing but baggage and problems. well when we got together he made it sound like all he does is pay child support the mother never lets him see her. not the case what so ever he owes thousands of back child support and he gets to see his daughter when the mother decides not to be a bitch. well see my mother in law talks to his ex on a daily basis and informs her of everything going on in our lives. me and my husband got into an argument so my mother in law called children services on me and called his ex telling her so then his ex called me said she wanted to give me a heads up cause she knows how it feals they used to do it to her all the time. well i decided to get along with his ex make things drama free well that backfired. she let us have his daughter and all she did was come here and go back and tell lies well because her and my husband were arguing she goes and calls children services on me not him. she kisses his moms ass vice versa
anyways i cant stand it when his daughter comes here im the one who is always stuck with her she always says how much she hates her dad and so fourth so why come.... but see my husband tries to kiss her ass he buys her whatever she wants when she is here and never tells her no and it really pisses me off then she goes home and tells lies. now my husbands ex is going to my mother in law stirring up shit. my husband says that its no big deal children services was called but i think its horrible. i almost feal like she wants him back now that she is single cus before she would always run back when her and her bf broke up but now that were married might make it a little tougher im confused on what to do. my husband is mean to me but i love him and i want to have a family not a broken home but i cant stand his daughter nor can i stand my mother in law and now his ex is being a bitch causing problems for me not him and he wants me to call and turn her in for fraud and everything else but its his problem yet he wont call or do nothing about it and lets his mom call children services and run her mouth about me and try to make me look bad please if someone has any ideas i sure could use them