My bf has two teenage daughters and both are spoiled rotten! His eldest is 17 the other 13. The younger one refuses to take his calls or to spend time with him since she is so brain washer by her mom. The 17 yr old has just recently started coming around but only when she needs or wants something. Their mother is filthy rich (literally) and these girls get whatever they want whenever they want. My bf's ex (kids mom) is a complete spoiled brat as well and has taught here daughters how to be just like her. The 17 year old talks to her dad (my bf) as if she were his boss/wife/superior. She expects him to drop everything when she calls. She is a rude, disrespectful girl and thinks she can disrespect her father and thinks nothing is wrong with it. The biggest problem is my bf is so afraid to stand up to his 17 yr old. He lets her talk trash, hang up on him and disrespect him and his family. I want him to stand up to his daughter and his ex and tell them that this type of behavior is NOT acceptable but he is too chicken.

I also have a teenage daughter who is 16 and she would NEVER speak to me or her father in a rude manner. It just blows my mind that kids in general but especially my boyfriends kids are allowed to talk this way to adults. What do I do?? I've mentioned to my bf that he shouldn't take crap from his kids, yet he still alows it. I feel like this is a hopeless situation and don't know if I should try to help my bf to make it better or if I should walk away.. I've been dating this man for over a year and he is a wonderful person, kind and loving and doesn't deserve to be treated so poorly by his daughters. It breaks my heart at times because I can see it hurts his feelings when his daughters ignore him and disrespect him. I wish I could slap the 17 yr old around a few times!!!

Someone please give me some advice.