Need FB advice as adult skids that will not talk to DH nor me are trying to get on minor's FB page!
Does anyone know how to set up my minor daughter's FB page so that it can not be seen or searched by someone by name? In other words can I exclude by name certain people's ability to view her page?
I thought that I had stumbled upon that option at one time but can't seem to find it now.
I have deleted them as friends and set her page so that they can not request to be her friend again but wanted to know what else I could do to ensure her privacy.
I and my minor children do not want to be stalked by them via face book. I do not want my minor children exposed to any more of these adult skids crazy and irrational behavior, do not want them influenced by them, and am angry that they keep trying to contact them behind my and my husband's back. My minor children do not want to talk to them but are afraid to make them mad by blocking them themselves! My minor children have CHOSEN to not return their calls to their cell phones since Skids acted so horribly - CAN'T THEY TAKE A HINT!
I am close to requesting a restraining order for stalking on behalf of my minor children on both SD 33 and SS 35! These adult skids need to spend one tenth of the amount of time they do on trying to stalk my minor children on mending their relationship with their own father before they even think about asking permission to come near my minor children! And yes I believe that as an adult you should have permission of thier parents if you are asking to join a minors FB - family member or not!
Why in the world would any adult want to be on a minor child's FB account unless you are a parent monitoring it! I can not imagine why ANY adult would want to track the junior and high school world of a preteen and 15 year old!
Adult skids are too intent on now trying to build a relationship with minor half sisters or to try to now influence them. Previously they had NO interest in any relationship before they went balistic over not being given DH's inheritance.
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Quite frankly you are breakig
Quite frankly you are breakig facebooks own rules. You have to be 13 to be on Facebook. I think you are wrong for even having a page for them. I am sure you won't like my answer but, you shouldn't even have them online for people to see. And anyone can see minimum stuff even if you block it. Please take them off. Please reconsider what you are doing. Facebook is designed for teenagers and up. Not young kids.
I'm really complaining about
I'm really complaining about the 15 year old's page as the preteen is not allowed to have one yet as I don't personally like FB or it's equivalents. My preteen will be 13 this year so I will face this issue with her soon which is why I mentioned her also.
I have mine set that way.
I have mine set that way. Click on "Account". Click on "Privacy Settings". Click on "Search". Where it says "Public Search Results", you have to un-check the box. No one will be able to find her in a name or e-mail search. The only way they will be able to get to her page is if they see her in someone else's friend list or if they see a comment to/from her on someone else's page/pic.
Thank you so much for your
Thank you so much for your help!
but then all they have to do
but then all they have to do is go to some one she is friends with, look at their friends list and they can see her profile. just block it completely as well. so skids cant see her friends list, also if you block them they cant see her profile at all...but that doesnt stop them from setting up another fake one you dont know about to look at it
I can't be found by name
I can't be found by name search, & even if people do come across my page, I have my contact info & pics set to "Friends Only" & my friends list is set to where it doesn't show on my profile, That way, BM can't see who I have on my page. The only thing BM can see on my page if she happens across it is my profile pic of me kissing her ex-husband on our wedding day.
Thanks so much for your
Thanks so much for your helpful response!
No problem! FB really
No problem! FB really confused me when I started using it. It took me awhile to figure it out.
Trying to do just that which
Trying to do just that which is why I am asking. Thanks for your input.
I agree with just-a-mom. Why
I agree with just-a-mom. Why aren't you just blocking them yourself? If you have the site set for your kids, why not just do it. I don't think a restraining order against your stepkids is the answer. How old are your Biokids anyway?
I like facebook and linked in and twitter, but I think there are so many issues with these sites and unless you are playing it safe, you leave yourself and in your case your children wide open to problems they just don't need.
On a side note, I sat through a conference with investment bankers last month where the former head of the Treasury Dept. talked about this problem. Believe it or not, it was not regarding pedophiles, it was in regards to other countries stealing secrets and technolgy using these sites. We always think in terms of personal safety, never international issues. It was bizarre to say the least.
Again I am trying to do just
Again I am trying to do just that which is why I was asking for help. I do not feel that I need to be criticized for asking how to block people in order to protect my children on facebook if I am not familiar with FB.