I've come here b/c I'm buried alive! I love my husband but I tell myself everyday I hate my situation. His ex has always worked for the family company but he worked at another branch. She is the controller of the entire company. She has always made my life a living hell. I have left my husband during our 1st 2 yrs of dating about 4 or 5 times b/c of her. They dated for 10 yrs and never married and had 2 daughters. He was unfaithful to her and she knew it and busted him multiple times. I don't tolerate it in our relationship and he knows this. I would leave him in a heartbeat never look back and I'm very intelligent and I get lots of attention from the opposite sex and he knows this. I would definitely move on. She has not moved on in 3 years. She calls me trash and evey name in the book. She blmaes me for their breakup!??? Cheating is one of my boundaries. I'm not a doormat...never will! But I feel like one right now! I left him after our plans to get married in Hawaii were ruined by her! I moved out and had enough! He chased me down and promised me the world and that the company was going to be sold and the ex was going to work for an ins. company in 3 months. I felt better they wouldnt be working so closed and we rekindled our love. We married and shortly there after had a baby girl she is 5 months. The company never sold and he was promoted to the same office with her. While I was pregnant I discovered his business email open on my computer. My SD was sitting next to me and as I read on my heart pumped out of my chest! I got in my car and left. I copied and pasted all the stuff they wrote back and forth to each other. I couldnt read it all and it made me sick (I was 8 months pregnant.) I left and stayed 2 days with his sister. I printed everything for my counselor. I swore I would leave him after the baby was born. Im still here the fool that I am. I was laid off from work during my maternity leave due to the economy. Not financially stable enough to make that big move again. He goes to work everyday and I cringe! She picked up the kids the other day and grabbed my DH's hand to read his palm! She's a palm reader???? (I shake my head) If my ex even touched me! My DH is a VERY jealous man... Do I need to say more? This cant go on in front of me? What goes on in the office? His parents work there and they didnt accept me at all from the beginning b/c his father cheated on his mom and she stuck it out for the sake of the children.