ok what is it that exes don't get or understand that just because they are an ex does not give them the right to call w/out politeness or courtesy? WTF!!! and then to boot when they understand that the phone won't be answered if they can't find the ability to be an adult that was taught common courtesy they put their kids in the middle by having them call for them. is it really that hard to just grow the hell up and use the (by theory) manners we are all usually taught as children? ooooh; and it just makes us look bad and petty if we get mad about it. i never address it and always take the proper or high road but god almighty five years plus is enough!!! i mean what am i suppose to expect from a parent that chose to move out of state w/ a boyfriend leaving the kids w/ us who WE financially supported w/ no help from her and then when came back used them as an excuse to be a hooker at a brothel here because she would do anything for her babies....WHAT A CROCK!!!