My step daughter is 15 she hates me and hates that I am with her father. Her mother is remarried and has a child, but she acts hipocritcal about the same situation with her father. She refuses for me to speak to her about anything she says that i should not be involved at all in anything in her life. my husband and i are at the end of our ropes...we do not know what to do or how to reach her, we have tried many different approaches but nothing seems to satisfy her. she is disrespectful to me and in my home, she also shows no respect to her father or affection towards him... she shows absolutely no compassion towards anything or anyone, she only acts cruel.....what can we do?

it seems like an impossible situation? my half sister growing up had the same issues and to this day (30Yrs later) still holds a grudge and resentment towards our father... her situation is impossible and has no and will not have any resolution. I am afraid that things will repeat themselfs with my step daughter...