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WalkOnBy's picture

My daughter is about to turn 25 and is married. She never lived in the house with the skids, as she was already in her own apartment at school by the time DH got custody of the skids.

She is aware of the ASS situation and the difficulty that is transpiring in my house right now. She was sending me links to apartments - lol!!

My kids have had a SM for about 15 years now and I NEVER tolerated any negative comments about her. Always told my kids that she was dad's wife and I was raising them better than to be obnoxious to ANY adult.

She sent me this text last night -

You know, mom, it's funny. At times we absolutely hated her, but under NO circumstances would we have EVER been allowed to treat SM the way that DH's kids treat you. Dad would have whooped our asses in the front window for the whole world to see, taken away every possession we had at his house and then whooped us again.

And, there, my friends, lies the difference. When a SM is treated like shit by the skids, if Dad doesn't step up and nip that shit in the bud, it will never get better.

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WalkOnBy's picture

just the usual bratty kid stuff. Being told what to do, being told to clean her room, being grounded for getting in trouble.

You know, all the same things she "hated" me for when she was a kid - lol!!!

NoWireCoatHangarsEVER's picture

YEP. Same here. My kids have a stepmom and no way in hell would they be allowed to treat SM with disrespect by me or their dad. Or any adult for that matter

WTF...REALLY's picture

yup - same here. My son is not allowed to speak badly of his dads live in girlfriend. My daughter is 22 - she can do what ever she wants. Wink

WalkOnBy's picture

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