OMG....is my SD's BM not playing with a full deck. She's not so much crazy as she is selfish, decetfull, (sorry if word's are spelled wrong. I'm not so great at spelling! LOL) has no respect for anyone, and won't waste her time with you if there is nothing in it for her! If the woman fell off the face of the earth I know I wouldn't miss her. She's a treasure to charish that's for sure.....hahaha NOT! The farther away she stays the better we are. The best part is she is more misserable now then she was while she was still married. The kids tell their BD and I all the time that she and her BF (the guy she left my finace for) that they fight non stop. I guess the grass wasn't greener on the other side like she thought it was, nor has her rather large alimony payment she gets every month from my fiance buy her any happiness. Karma sucks doesn't it?! LOL

Yes I'm going to be a grandma at 34! YEAHHHHHH!!!!!!!! Yes your right I probably am going to be on here a lot? There is a lot more to my whole life that is just about my skids. Sometimes I wounder what the hell have I gotten myself into?!?! Thank you for the "welcome" by the way.

My thoghts exactly considering I was 19 when I had my son (I'm 34 now) and was pretty much on my own with the exception of my ex not running off when he found out I was pregnant. Some times I wish he would have though. Looking back now I realize I would have been better off. Oh well back to my prego SD luckily her and her bf are moving into their first apartment this coming weekend, but.....she has no job, and he works full time while she sleeps and plays on her phone all day. Then she has the nerve to ask her dad for money!!!!!!!! I told her dad that he needs to start making her pay for her own bills and make her grow up. It's now our fault she is prego! We are not the ones that didn't take our birth control and then spread our legs! We still pay for her phone, car insurance, when her car needs fixed, or an oil change and as if we are not struggling enough. We live with my fiances parents because we can't afford a morgage or even rent payment because he has to pay his ex almost a $1,000 a month in alimony! He has already talked to a lawyer (a really good one too) and there is no way to eliminate the alimony other then to keep paying it until he doesn't have to anymore. The only other way for him to get out of paying it was if his ex were to die. So we are stuck for the next yr or 2 until he is done paying his ex. That's a total of 5 yr of alimony payments. So nice to know we have bought her a house and 2 cars and clothes and food and what ever else. Plus she works and has a boyfriend she lives with that works for the county and has his own buisness. Not to mention she walked away from their marriage with no debt and a car which she eventually gave back to my fiance broken! I could rant all day long about his ex and my ex and my skids but I'll break it up into bits and pieces to have more to talk about in the days...months...yrs to come. LOL

I have mixed emotions with my SD being prego and wether or not I want to consider myself a grandma or not? I don't think I would mind so much if her father would turn her responsibilities (phone bill, car insurance.....) over to her instead of making them ours! And as long as she doesn't think she can dump the kid off on us just so she can go and party or whatever. She is very self absorbed and thinks the world revolves around her thanks to how her BM has brought her up. Well I hate to break it to her but she now lives for that child and that baby comes first. No it doesn't have to come first 100% of the time but the vast majoritiy of the time that baby does.