This is my first post but it's just a rant so feel free to ignore it.
Okay, so let me start out that about 3 weeks ago my SO's brother came out as trans (female to male) His parents freaked out and threw him out of the house. Not before his dad assaulted him and called him a tranny. my bil 17 so I'm not letting him sleep on the streets and I do genuinely love him so he moved in with us. Last night I get a phone call from their dad telling me to throw him out, or there would be consequences. (He refused to elaborate on that at first) I hung up and he calls me again, saying that this my last warning. I told him to fuck off and I hung up again. About 3 hours ago he starts calling bil's cell phone telling him he's ruining my marriage and that he's sick. Finally I called him and we REALLY got into it. He screamed "My daughter deserves better than you! You're lucky I don't come over and whoop both your asses." I was pretty calm. I calmly told him if he wants to come over and take a swing at someone who is physically capable of fighting back then he was more than welcome. (He used to beat on my wife and her mom as well) And I just spent the last hour trying to convince this kid he is in no way shape or form harming our marriage and we are happy to have him with us. How you could claim to love your child unconditionally but not accept them for who they are. My wife is going to try and get a restraining order on Monday. I've never liked her father but he went over the line with me this time.