BPD BM told DH that I'm a bad influence on him.
I realize that to BM DH standing up for himself and SD6 is a bad thing. I'm sure she misses the days when DH would merely patronize her because he was too non confrontational to call her out on being the lying Slore that she is but what makes her judging our marriage / relationship EPIC is that in the last nine months BM and her BF have had the cops out there a handful of times for domestic violence committed by BOTH of them, questions about restraining orders, retrieval of firearms,they've both been arrested and that's her idea of a good relationship?! Ha.
People in glass houses......
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If I were you, I would wear
If I were you, I would wear that as a badge of honor
Oh they hate that. My dh is
Oh they hate that.
My dh is a go with the flow kinda guy. I am the one who schedules for our kids and schedules our every weekend. I think because this is how it went with bm when they were married. I sign our kids up for stuff, schedule appointments, plan vacations, etc. Now I am not a controlling person, but if I don't do it then we will do nothing.
Now when dh and I first got together, bm was the puppet master. She did all of the planning, even on our days. I was not used to having anyone tell me what I was going to do in my life. For instance if there was a baseball game on his days, she would tell him that he had to take them. or if she wanted more cash she would tell him to just give it to her.
Yeah, bm was not happy when dh started living his own life with me.
MIL told DH that I am a bad
MIL told DH that I am a bad influence on SS. HAHAH, she doesn't even live in this state, how would she know what kind of an influence I am?
DH laughed and text her back "yep, my wife, the president of little league, team mom, full time employed, wife and mom that has never touched a drug in her life and lives for our family... totally a bad influence. Someone better call CPS NOW!!". She didn't respond.
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Conversation in BM's head: "I
Conversation in BM's head: "I have lost control over DH. I don't like this feeling. Rather than deal with it like an emotionally stable person, I will project my controlling nature onto someone else to rid myself of potentially having to face my dysfunction. I know - it's I.hate.cats! Everything changed when she came around. It's her fault."
BM to DH: "DH, you've changed. Obviously I.hate.cats is a bad influence. I don't like the way you've changed, so it is bad. I will act concerned with the hope that you'll get back on board with my program and let me control your life..."