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what is expected from a stepmother

overworkedstepmum's picture

I feel like I have no respect from stepsons yet I feel I have to do everything today I said I wasnt able to pick stepson up from school and all the kids had to walk home his reply was your a lazy bitch and shouldn't be driving dads truck .I cook I clean I pay all the bills I pay for the birthdays xmaz contribute to holidays and work fulltime i always have all the kids in my care I make there school lunchs i run around here and there for them stepson 1 is 15 and dosnt lift a finger around the house and always asking dad for money and stepson 2 is always winging .i have 3 of my own kids so five in total and no real help from my partner. im feeling like the three of them are just taken the piss tbh Sad

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just.his.wife's picture

I-m so happy exactly this! & change the WiFi password and he who has potty mouth does not get it back until he understands gratitude and shows it.

overworkedstepmum's picture

you all make great points I will stop doing everything ive had a gutsfull im ganna earn that bitch title

Last In Line's picture

I'd sure show him a lazy bitch! One lazy enough to pack my stuff and spend a few days at a friends or at a hotel.

hereiam's picture

So, what is your partner going to do about his kid calling you a lazy bitch?

It sounds like you are being used by all 3 of them. Stop doing for them. Who's house is it? Maybe you and your kids should live separately from his and his kids and he can take on the responsibility for his own children.

I don't really know (or care) what is expected of me as a stepmother, I only know what I'm willing to do. And it's not a whole lot.