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omgstop's picture

Okay seriously, I feel as though my life has been an absolute SHIT SHOW since I moved here in November, because of the skids. I learned relatively quickly that I needed to disengage from the younger two skids, (within less than a year), and dh has really stepped up and been doing everything possible to get the skids under control; however with everything that's happened over the last nine months, (including the circumstances which lead me to move here), I am an absolute tar-ball of negativity for the last two weeks. My car getting crashed last night was just the icing on the cake.

Here's the list so far:
-November I move here and osd is a bitch because she was threatened by my moving in
-Christmas she was an absolute BITCH
-By January she had wrecked her dad's truck, (still drive-able), lost the majority of her friends, had a fucking melt-down, was fired from her first job
-Feb she started weekly therapy, was enrolled in Day Academy, (rather than traditional school)
-By the end of March school was really working out better for her, looking for a job, the weekly therapy sessions seemed to be helping a great deal
-By the end of May she got a good job, finished out the school year with all As and one B
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THE THREE SKIDS.....ONE.
... she is still INSANELY entitled, obnoxious, loud, rude, slovenly and has a pretty explosive temper...she has gotten better with some of the temper stuff...also she can super dish it out but CANNOT take being called out at all...this may be a teenage thing, I dunno...

In the meantime: Voldemort is a attention-whoring-incapable-vapid-cunt-rag and regardless of how much effort I put into making her a non-issue, times like this fill me with LOATHING; she keeps parading men through the house and it directly affects the way the skids act at our place. On top of that, Hodor is not only dumber than a box of rocks, he's a budding sociopath. Ysd is a ghost among these poltergeists.

So now both cars are wrecked, we pay $1500 a month for a shitty two bedroom apartment, Voldemort is taking Hodor outta town for seven days, all seven of which dh is working, AND I will be stuck home with osd at night because she is NOT driving my fucking car anymore.

WHAT. THE ACTUAL. FUCK. I L O V E dh but his kids are making me want to throw myself in front of a speeding mother-fucking semi while stabbing myself in the face with a rusty spoon and chewing glass.

I'M SO FUCKING MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm taking mood stabilizers, ffs. I absolutely do my BEST to keep calm 99% of the time but all of this has been building since November and I seriously have no idea how dh and Voldemort raised such incapable, fundamentally REFUCKINGTARDED and damaged individuals. SERIOUSLY.

My bios have two different dads, live in two different states and are INFINITELY more well adjusted IN EVERY SINGLE WAY than the skids; THEIR PARENTS LIVE LESS THAN FIVE MILES APART. WHAT. THE. FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

Okay, rant done. /sigh.

omgstop's picture

Thanks so much.

I have GOT to put a stop to all this YESTERDAY. I can tell you that drawing the line with Voldemort and ss was only the beginning. As soon as osd finishes high school, we are LEAVING this town, I don't care if it's just a town or two over. I'm DONE living this close to that stupid bitch and her psycho circus.

Besides all this, I'm pretty certain that I'm going to look for a short term rental next summer when dd comes to visit again. The less I see of ss, the better. Also, I am no longer set on getting a place large enough for all the kids. My bios don't live with us so whether or not the skids have space is not my concern. I want osd OUT of my house next year, she can go live in FL with her grandmother for all I care.

Also I'm gonna go with B,C and E.

ugh, thanks again for reading!

omgstop's picture

Thank you and I'm working on it. I have to take control of what I can in this situation, I can't just let things happen then cry about it, you know?

BarkAtTheMoon's picture

OMG omgstop! This blog was cathartic for me. It is MY life exactly, as you probably know from my blogs. But I don't drinnnnnnnk! I may have to start. Teenage girls are THE worst. Your SD (how old?) sounds like my SD19. The older they get, the bigger THEIR balls get. Does DH do ANYTHING to shut her down? I say retreat to your room and hide while OSD is there and DH is out of town. Good book, good movies, whatever it takes. Also buy some Mack's earplugs so you don't have to even HEAR her.

I feel your pain, sister. I do. I'm so sorry that you're pissed, I've been there. Keep visiting us here.....

~ Moon

omgstop's picture

LMAO dh does do things to shut her down - he doesn't engage in her arguing like he used to. She is 17 next week and has ALWAYS had the biggest balls ever.

Also it's ss, (Hodor), that's going outta town for seven days, dh is at work all seven of those evenings though. I hope she has a ride somewhere. Thanks for reading!

omgstop's picture

Waterboarding hahahahahahahhahaa

Once I ruined a sweater of osd's on purpose by running it through the dryer......twice ... then it was about big enough to fit a cabbage patch doll. That was months ago though, lol

Monchichi's picture

(hug) Did we mention step life SUCKS EFFING BALLS? My daughter is fatherless, grandparentless and was raised by lil ole me all on her poor own. I had some very rough times when I first had her. And she's more goddamn bloody every loving stable than a child with 2 parents, 2 step parents, 4 biological grandparents and 4 step grandaprents.

So yes, that's all I have.

omgstop's picture

OKAY???!!!! Like seriously wtf did these people, (dh and Voldemort), think was going to happen when they allowed these kids to get their own way 100% of the time? Did they think it would magically take care of itself? DUUURRRRRRR

I'm sorry that you've personally experienced this, however I';m grateful that someone empathizes with me...its incredible really.

omgstop's picture

hahahaha Fireball is LETHAL! I wouldn't mind any one of your showing up on my doorstep, at least I would have someone who gets it to chat and drink with!

I stayed in my room last night, had dinner in bed, (so to speak), a nice hot shower, then ambien and off to dreamland.

Thanks for having my back Sally!!!

SugarSpice's picture

i love the word "slovenly." such a good visual on that one.

in truth, the options above are good.