I dont know why I let these girls get to me, but they do. My SD16 used to live with my DH and me last year for about 6 mths because she had problems in her school, got caught up in sexting ring and phone confiscated by police, court appearances and truancy. I have a DD16 also and they became fast friends for about a month once school started until SD16 found some friends, then all the drama started, lying, sneaking about, always being sick, period cramps and throwing up partway through meals, and boy crazy. SD16 was supposedly the one who hated drama, but over the time she lived with us I realized that she is the one that starts most or all of it. She got to telling her other sisters about things in my household because I didnt let her get away with the BS and made DH address it against his will because he trusted her and believed in her. She and her sister, SD17, were trash talking me and my DD on twitter last year some really nasty stuff, my DD saw it and showed me, my DD was upset and hurt, as I was too. After that, the girls wanted nothing to do with me or my DD and this went on for 6 or 8 mths.

Then DH had a talking with them over SD17's upcoming HS graduation, because I wasnt going to get a ticket and they all rallied why I wasnt because I would make SD17 uncomfortable and I wasnt close to any of them. DH wasnt going to go to graduation but I told him no matter what he would regret it if he didn't. They stated that he was picking me over family...his response that I am his family too...never mind that she had 8 tickets to use and he only requested 2....never mind that SD17 allowed me in her labor room when she was giving birth to her son last year and again 45 mins after he was born.

SD16 came down last wknd to hangout with friend she made when living with us and then to work with DH this week to earn some $$...bailed out of working due to period cramps and then went home yesterday and all the while got $60 out of us that was to be paid back from working with her dad. She ended up spending Monday night with us cause there was no one to take her home or come get her, she was not happy. She spent yesterday at my house alone taking the selfies as usual and bathing Monday night and again yesterday afternoon...I know because I took all the dirty towels out of the bathroom to wash before i left for work, then there were dirty ones when I got home... Well last night, I go to take a shower and my bottle of feminine wash wasnt in the shower, so I looked between shower curtain and the sink and then the drawers and closet and waste basket...no where to be found...a new bottle , just gone, missing...checked the kitchen can too...mentioned it to DH and he immediately text her and she says she never saw it...LOL...and why would she take it...LOL...the LOLs were in her texts. Well it doesnt have legs and I noticed my razor was hanging differently too, I have the blades facing me and now they were facing the wall, so I figure she used it too. I dont care about the feminine wash, but just to take it outright?!?! I think she took it to see what we would do or say, or she used it for bubble baths, which she likes to do...its obvious shes lying and now DH says she wont be back bc if shes going to lie about something like that and take it, then what else might she take from the house. Im frustrated bc we had a great visit with them 2 wks ago and they had DH's grandson along and we cooked out and chatted and it was all good, and now this....and Im in the midst of planning a Father's day dinner for DH with the girls included as a surprise to him and this event last night has left a bad taste in my mouth.