So after months of the bowel movement making sure that I'm aware that sd15 and ss9 are, NOT BY ANY MEANS EVER AT ALL EVER DO YOU HEAR ME N E V E R, allowed to be at our place while dh isn't home, she sends a text yesterday to him, "requesting a change in the visiting/parenting agreement". She would like to alternate weekends and have the two kids mentioned come over every evening of during the week....when he isn't home....he works 2pm-11pm, 6 on two off, rotating.

The back-story is this: when I moved here last year, I was unemployed for a few months. During that time, I offered to with the two skids that don't live with us full time, (OSD16 does). I was clear about what kind of help I was offering: picking skids up from school and dropping them off at her place if she was working, helping with homework and driving them back to their mothers place, (she works evenings...counseling married couples...mmhmm), etc. We live less than three miles apart so it wasn't a big deal. The skids aren't bad and I figured they may as well be around someone rather than just in front of the Xbox from 4-9 pm while she and their dad work. As soon as I got a job, I let her know, "hey new job starts next week, won't be able to help out like that anymore"; she took that as a que to start asking me if I could babysit. I did a couple of times because I wasn't doing anything those two evenings. Then one evening she asks me to sit and I told her I wasn't able to...the next day she texts dh that she's decided to disallow the skids from coming over when he's not home. Cool with me. Dh rolled his eyes and didn't respond.

While I was helping out with the kids, she referred to me as her, "Mexican Nanny", which I seriously did not find funny. Luckily, within a couple of days of hearing that, I was offered the job and was able to use that as an excuse to stop helping out rather than have to confront her, because doing that is a super waste of time. Now that she's having issues finding a nanny that will work with a rotating schedule, she wants to dump her kids off on me? Oh NOW, it's okay? Mmm no...and dh told her that I'm not her nanny. There's more to this stupidity, I just wanted to get this out so I'm not carrying it around for the next couple of days being annoyed by her giant balls.