So I told DH this morning how frustrated I am about everything and how I feel used and flat out asked him if the only reason he wanted to marry me was so that I would raise his kid so he didn't have to. I asked why it took me breaking my foot off in his ass to get him to do anything and why I care about his kid more than he does and why he continues to let BM shit all over us and dictate the schedule. He appears to have understood where I was coming from but I have yet to see if there will be any long lasting change.

Anyway, to get to the good part. He texted BM this morning and basically told her it was unfair of her to dump all of the parenting responsibilities on us and to expect a bill in the mail for her portion of the medical expenses (which we figured out last night is in the neighborhood of $450. BM will NOT be pleased). She called to bitch him out about how she was going to call the caseworker again and tell her all about how DH wasn't letting her have her weekly phone calls (they went to mediation last summer and she said she wanted weekly phone calls with SD which frankly I feel is not enough but whatever, at least it was something. She called the first few weeks but now she only calls to talk to SD if it is a holiday or something like that and apparently that is somehow our fault for not calling her or something?) and also to tell the caseworker, now this is where you can see just how stupid she is, that we don't tell her about medical appointments to give her the chance to go to them.

Ummmm.......Learning texted you 2 weeks ago to tell you about a dentist appointment 2 months in advance and you called the caseworker to complain and ask if you had to go and you are told no and you are refusing to go. Now you want to call the caseworker to complain that we don't tell you when appointments are so you can go? Please God let me be a fly on the wall for that conversation.