Lets see were do I start first me and my dh have been married for almost 2 years. Ever since we got together I new his kids hated me. Just by the way they treated me. And to top it off the bm says I will never be able to discipline them even though dh and I have them just as much as bm. Dh works a lot so im the one that usually has them and they are so disrespectfully. They know I am not aloud to discipline them so they push me to my limits the oldest ss has already bowed up in my face like he wanted to punch me. They don't listen t a word I say and when I do get on to them they call there bm crying and then bm calls dh and they get into a big argument. Not to mention I have two bk of my on that have adhd and live with me 24/7 cause have no idea were bd is. Dh seems to see everything wrong with my bk but nothing wrong with his bk. I have been going through heck with my ss for almost 2 years and it just seems to be getting worse the older they get. Its done got to the point when I know ss are coming I want to run and hid cause I know what's coming dh changes his hole personality when ss are with us. I love dh but i have told him I don't know if I can take it much longer I don't want to loose my dh but ss are pushing dh and I further away from each other. I just don't know what to do any more. I don't want to have to hide in my room every time we have ss but to keep my marriage I may have to cause im to the point that they are making me so stressed im scared of what is going to happen with my health. I just wish dh could see how ss are making our marriage break and could do something to fix it. SS are not just this way with me they treat bm bf the same way plus any other adult that try's to get on to them. Because bm has told them no one is aloud to discipline them but her and dh. So they treat all adults and other kids poorly