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If it wasn't for FB we would never know what is going on!

misSTEP's picture

My DH has finally written off SD, I think. We found out that apparently SD got married on Friday. No word to DH or any of his side of the family. Found out from SD's fiance's, well, H now, page. :jawdrop:

The weekend before, my DH was going to tell our crazy neighbors to quiet down (they have parties every single damn night of the week!). Guess who was over there? SD! She believed our crazy neighbor lady when she said that DH and I ATTACKED HER!! Truth is, she came to our door calling us names. Then I told her to get her drunken harpy ass back over to her place and she punched me! Twice! Yes, then I beat her until she bled. But my DH had nothing to do with it except getting me to stop before I did further damage to her.

They were making fun of DH and SD was laughing along with them. She told DH that she wasn't there to see him and that he should go home. He told her, "I AM IN MY BACK YARD! Why don't YOU go home and take care of your KIDS!!!"

Now that I think about it, it must have been her bachelorette party or something.

My DH was extremely upset to not know about her marriage. I said that she has turned out just like BM. If she has a dick, she doesn't need DH. Not nice but I hate seeing how they hurt him!

He said at least she doesn't share his last name anymore.

It's so damn sad to think of how close they used to be and how those skids' eyes would light up when they saw their dad. Now he is something useless to be tossed away like garbage. Sad

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NoWireCoatHangarsEVER's picture

You beat up the drunk neighbor? I have a total girl crush on you!

That is sad though about SD's treatment of your husband. what a bitch . its really her loss though

misSTEP's picture

It was three years of frustration pent up that just made me snap. She was drunk and I was sober. It really wasn't a fair fight. LOL

It would be her loss but it is also going to be the grandskids' loss as well, which is our loss. My DH is a wonderful person with little kids. He goes above and beyond to make them think and show them new things.

For instance, when the skids were little, he would put bird seed out by the patio doors then have the skids under a blanket so they could watch the birds close up.

Another instance, he taught some kids in a hotel pool how you can click rocks underwater and someone else underwater can hear them a long way away.

After we move, I am going to bring up maybe fostering or getting into the Big Brother/Big Sister program or something. It is just really sad to see him hurt over and over again.

AllySkoo's picture

So sorry, I know how you guys feel. We found out SD18 had gotten married through Facebook as well. Sucks. *sigh*

misSTEP's picture

We thought she was just coming out of her PAS-induced haze. I guess she just learned how to manipulate and lie just like BM. :sick:

hereiam's picture

My SD got married at 18 and tried to keep it a secret from us so that DH would not know to stop CS.

That guy divorced her and she is now engaged to someone else but has not said a word about it to DH. So far, he has not let on to her that he knows, it will be interesting if she ever tells him.

It is really sad, they were really close when she was younger.

No saint's picture

I have to thank Facebook: it it wasn't for it I would have left SO without knowing there was someone else in his life.

misSTEP's picture

I guess I should be happy that she didn't come to DH asking for a bunch of money for some celebration that she couldn't afford.

misSTEP's picture

She has never asked for money or a place to live so far. I am pretty sure that he would laugh at her if she did.