So I just want to gripe. My fiancé has a 15 year old boy, who acts entitled, spoiled and sarcastic. He only comes to be with his dad at his dad's apartment about 3 nights a week. Maybe I just can't stand him in general, but what do you all think of these behaviors? The other day I went to my fiance's apartment when he had his son and the couch was wet. I asked why is it wet, he told me that his son sat there and his butt was so nasty that it gave off a smell and my fiancé had to clean it up with Lysol. The boy doesn't wear underwear at home. Freakin gross. I said why isn't he getting a shower and he had to make his son at age 15 take a shower. This boy is 230 lbs and getting bigger. His mother lets him eat and pretty much anything and lets him do whatever he wants including look at porn on his phone. We know he looks at it because I told my fiancé he'd better monitor stuff like that but every one likes to ignore these behaviors. Also his mother caught him with his phone going at it while his door was open and he didn't even notice her there. When the grand parents come over they like to go to a certain restaurant. The boy doesn't like it and demands to go else where and they let him. He also has to be in every conversation. A large attention whore.

Ok I feel better just writing this out. I won't marry his father until this boy leaves home, which means 3 years. I have told my fiancé the reason is because of his son's behavior. Thank God I didn't marry right away! Thanks for reading.