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To a great SM

TheAccidentalSM's picture

Years ago my BFF moved half way across the world. There she met a guy, fell in love, got married and had a lovely baby boy.

Sadly, while her little boy was still a toddler she was diagnosed with an untreatable agressive cancer. Shortly after her diagnosis she passed away.

Since then the guy met a new woman. She had kids from a previous relationship so together they created a blended family. The new SM is amazing. All my BFF's family and friends love her. She has taken on the job of raising this little boy with her own with grace and humour.

Her responsibilities are made more challenging as the guy is in the forces and is currently on a dangrous deployment.

It was recently the anniversary of my BFF's death. SM arranged a great day for my BFF's son to commemorate his mom. As I mentioned, they live on the other side of the world so I could only see the photos but they brought tears to my eyes (partly sad and partly happy that BFF is remembered). It was such a touching tribute.

SM - you rock.

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TheAccidentalSM's picture

Thanks
I still miss her but I think that she would be so pleased her baby has such a great SM.

TheAccidentalSM's picture

True
She gets 100% back up from the guy and BFF's friend and family. But I'm still glad the little tyke has her.

fakemommy's picture

True, I've also known of some women who shouldn't have been involved with a man with kids, because they were so insecure about his past that they were mean and bitter with no real cause :(. (Thinking about it, should anyone be involved with a man with kids??? Wink )