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TheWicked's picture

We went to Disneyland for the weekend. I figured the skids had told BM but it seems they didn't. So BM texts on Thursday morning that she HAS to Skype with skids that night(hadn't bothered to Skype for weeks because she was always busy but whatever). DH says sorry can't happen we're headed to Disney. BM loses it and texts both DH and OSS, who lives with her full time, that 'your REAL family is going to Disneyland without you but don't worry they will buy you something'.

DH was PISSED. BM is such a moron. WTH about 'your REAL family'. Aren't you the long suffering loving mother? I mean she bitches about being it enough.

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ChiefGrownup's picture

Wait. Did she mean she and her relatives are going to Disney at the same time or in the near future and are going to deliberately leave OSS at home because he's going with his dad first?

BTW, be grateful skids didn't tell her first. Sounds like she would have sabotaged it if she knew. Sounds like skids are onto her and that's why they kept mum. Most kids would bubble over about an upcoming trip to the mouse. These kids kept quiet for a reason.

Maxwell09's picture

Yeah I don't get that part...why did she tell her kid that his "real family" is going to Disney without him. You'd think she'd proclaim to be his real family since she's his mother...I'm confused.

Unless she's going some other time and doesn't plan on bringing the kids with her since they didn't tell her they were going with yall?

I don't know, she sounds crazy, I don't understand crazy

TheWicked's picture

No OSS did not go to Disney. OSS is on 'the spectrum' Disney is WAAAAAAAY too much input for him. He also lives 4 states away with BM full time. DH and I have the other skids full time. BM often tells people and OSS to his face that he is retarded. She routinely says things like 'oh I would LOVE to work full time but because son is retarded I have to give up any kind of life to take care of him. He just sucks the joy out of what should have been MY life.' Of course, 'taking care' of him involves ignoring him while surfing the net for new men to sleep with.

Yes, I believe skids didn't tell her because they knew it would be an issue. It's just the 'real family' thing I am so confused by. BM is nuts!

princessmofo's picture

My oldest bio is on the spectrum. He has enriched MY life and the lives of all around him more than I can ever say with his compassion, kindness and humor. Your bm makes me fucking sick to my stomach. Somebody needs to throw a bucket of water on that bitch and see if she melts.

AllySkoo's picture

Maybe it was a dig at OSS? Like, he's been giving her problems and expressing some kind of preference for Dad, so this is her passive/aggressive way of guilt tripping him about which parent actually loves him more (ie: her)?

That's all I got.

jstorie's picture

Maybe he had said something to her in an argument or confrontation about wanting to be with his "real family" my sd does that shit.