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BM texting at 11pm - to fight

Wah-wah-11's picture

Over a bat! DH didn't send ball stuff to her house at the kid swap bc she's refusing to take the kids to their ball games & practices. DH said there is no point in passing all this stuff back & forth every few days if they aren't gonna play when with her it can stay here. So she texted yesterday at 8sm to bring it to the school. The won't keep stuff like that so we would have to meet her or her husband when the pick up the kids. So DH texts her (since she was the one that sent the text) that we weren't gonna make it back to school in time but we could meet them at another place since they go by there but he needed to know if that was what she wanted or we weren't gonna rush back. She didn't respond till 11pm. And she was threatening to bring the lawyers in of course. Telling DH not to talk a lot her husband .. Oh wait ... Yiu mean it's ok for you to trash talk wah wah but someone says one thing about your precious hubby it's awful? Your perfect hubby who got into an argument with another parent over ball practice and totally showed his ass --in a group text so every parent on your kids team got those messages. Yes I've had parents come up to me and ask of that was her and her husband that caused that. So your husband takes you back every other week when you leave him and go and tell everyone you have pictures of the bruises from him hitting you ..

Thank goodness DH ignored her & had nothing to say.

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BarkAtTheMoon's picture

Good for DH to NOT send the BB items. I mean, if BM is too hoity-toity to take the skids to practice and games, then.....? No need, right? Sounds like BM and her H are control freaks. They both need to just STFU, quit group texting the entire team of parents (in TRUE 7th grade fashion....) and do what's in the best interest of the skids.

I'm thinking they aren't taking the skids to BB because of the group text issue? They sound cray-cray. It won't be long before they are banned from stepping onto the BB fields. Yep, when you can't maintain healthy control in your OWN life, go ahead and take it to Jr's BB field. Ugh.

Smiling because your DH wielded some control over BM and she's squirming and losing it! Pass the popcorn! Biggrin

~ Moon

Wah-wah-11's picture

No they weren't taking then before the group text, and the argument was over why her husband wasn't notified sooner about a practice he wasn't going to take them to any way .idiots lol

BarkAtTheMoon's picture

Do you hear that?.......Wait, it's getting louder.....I think I hear Janet Jackson singing "Control."

"Cause now I'm all grown up!" :sick:

They are asinine!

~ Moon

Wah-wah-11's picture

Cheap my butt. His bat was outrageous bc that was what he wanted for his birthday and they went in together and got it.... She didn't want everything.. However, we offered to take it to her and we got no reply til 11pm and she starts threatening with lawyers ..

Wah-wah-11's picture

It wouldn't matter if we got him a new bat and all that.. She would find something else..or she would want the other kids stuff and then we would have to buy all of it over again for 2 kids... Then would be football season and there would be a fight over something there .. Anything and if she doesn't have anything she makes something up

Wah-wah-11's picture

Some people don't buy the expensive equipment.. However this was what SS had asked to be his bday present and she asked fbhibby was interested in splitting it bc it was rather expensive.eituer way when you have to provide ball equipment for 3 kids (which we are) who can aford to run out and spend $20 on cleats, $20 on a glove and $20 on a bat for each kid she decided to keep their stuff .. Plus when you pay $90 for them to play ... I sure can't

Glassslipper's picture

Lmao, starts threating with lawyers, I would have texted back and said:
"Please have your lawyer contact my lawyer directly as I do not care to discuss this with you"
And never say anything more.
Call her bluff! If she is willing to pay hundreds an hour over BB equipment you have proof she refuses to use on her time because she won't take them, I say bring it on BM!

Wah-wah-11's picture

It's not bluff.. She lives to involve the lawyers.. Bc she won't pay and they will end up quitting on her. DHs lawyer has to tell her lawyer that they couldn't be involved in every argument she decided to have less than a month ago

Wah-wah-11's picture

They were notified before that we weren't bringing the equipment but if they decided to take them we would take the stuff to the practice but there was no point in passing it around if it wasn't going to be used .. And they didn't want to go practice nor did they want to take the kids to their games this weekend .. She just wanted it to fight ..next week it will be sent ..